I always wondered why Prahalladh is such an admired character in the Indian mythology. Recently one of my uncles passed away. He was like my Godfather. And i still cant come in terms with the fact that he's no more as a physical entity.
I went and met aunt and during the ceremonies i realised how strong a lady she was. She held her up so strongly and positively, never looking unfaced and ever defiant, although sad still.
It made me wonder what is death after all?And why should one suffer from it? How does one define death?
A state of inexistence? Oh but he’s still there in our minds. Only he doesn’t add more to the existing memories of the character. He’s physically inexistent but what is it that’s gone out from the person that makes us feel bad?
Aunt told me this once , “The soul is what we are, and that’s why the person is no more called by his name when he’s lying after death, it is but called just a body? Till the soul is there you call him by his name. Once he’s dead he becomes a “body”. It’s the soul that you address as the person’s name every time you call that person.
Ramana Maharshi always told “Me and my body are two different entities.”. I never realised the weight of the statement until this conversation with aunt.
Its intriguing as to what happens to the person and the soul in him after he’s no more.
Difficult to realise how we all adjust with the absence of that entity/person we remain associated to for such major percentage of our lives. That you no more call up that person, that you no more feed the person, no more hear his voice or his presence in the house, or share a light conversation or a heated argument with him anymore. You don’t have his experience to look at or refer to for guidance. Where does all that go?? How can things just kinda vanish from the very face of the earth. And a single man’s death affects so many lives altogether is so overwhelming to know.
There were visitors for 10 days on a trot morning and evening after my uncle died. I realise how easily we guys state that 500 people got killed in so and so accidents. Imagine the number of lives that get affected eveytime a person leaves us and goes off into oblivion. The world and its people are so deeply interconnected and intertwined with the other’s lives you barely realise the dependency, the caring, love and affection that every person showers on you in the course of meeting you or in the period of any restricted association with you. While you make an impact on some of them you hardly affect the others.
Death is so sudden, you hardly ever realise when it came and took you away by storm and left nothing back. And by the time you realise you’ve lost someone, it’s too late to act upon the mistakes you committed or the other person did.
I don’t understand the need and stress given on suffering by most religions. Isn’t there enough suffering on this earth to prevent you from forcing more suffering. I believe the only way to mokhsha is happiness. Coz only if you are happy meaning your soul is happy can your soul go free and not latch onto another body (as they say) and come on the earth to lead the same sorrowful life all over again.
I therefore request anyone who’s reading this post to strive toward achieving inner happiness and satisfaction and a sense of achievement of having given this world something and leaving it in a better state that what you came into.